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Freedom and Fairness
Advanced Facilitation Training for Intergroup Dynamics
Why Freedom and Fairness
Ethnocentrism
Ethnocentrism is one of the deadliest forces on the planet.
This photo of cracked earth is a representation of our humanity under the intense pressures of our ethnocentric, us-versus-them dynamics.
Where humanity is fractured and our relational bonds atrophied is where ethnocentrism has taken root in the form of:
- Group think
- Polarization
- Over-policing of speech
- Over-adherence to identity politics
- Unproductive and damaging conflict
- Subtle to gross dehumanization
- Violence
Us-and-Them distinctions are not bad. Our differences are a source of beauty, culture, and different ways of being and knowing. Further, solidarity within a group creates a safe space to be, and an empowered sovereignty from which to advocate, envision and manifest a just, equitable and humanity affirming society.
However, Us-and-Them dynamics are powerful and if not facilitated can overtake individuals and groups, leading to the atrophying and fracturing of our humanity and, therefore, keeping us from realizing our ability to radically collaborate across our diversity in service of a more free and fair world.
Facilitating a Greater Humanity at Work
Organizations are becoming spaces of cultural innovation where justice, equity, belonging and a deeper sense of human potential are being prioritized.
Processes and policies that protect and promote justice, equity, belonging and human potential are critical guardrails, but not sufficient in and of themselves.
It must be complemented with deep behavioral and mindset changes that only happen through deep personal and interpersonal work. Few leaders, facilitators and consultants in this space have the capacity to guide their teams, groups and orgs through this aspect of the work.
To become adept at this requires us to face our own ethnocentric biases, fear, and cynicism that arise when we engage historical, intense and complex intergroup dynamics. And, it requires us to discover a care, forgiveness, and compassion that informs our vision of who we can be together.
This training lays the ground work for leaders, facilitators, and consultants to develop a depth of courage, interpersonal sophistication, emotional stamina, and vision of who we can become that allows us to step into the fire of intergroup dynamics and transform them.
Who is Freedom and Fairness For
Freedom and Fairness Trainings are for:
- Consultants and facilitators in the Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion Space
- Peace-builders and mediators
- Leaders building bridges across different identity groups
- Those regularly working and facilitating groups
Freedom and Fairness is particularly curated for individuals who:
- Have a deep commitment to being for one another no matter race, gender, creed or any other difference
- Have a learner-mindset: Openness, Humility, Hunger for learning
- Want to learn to work with conflict and intensity productively in service of individual and group transformation
- Want to be in a training context where they are challenged in a supportive environment to find new ways of being, behaving, and serving groups
How is Freedom and Fairness Delivered
Our Freedom and Fairness workshop brings a unique approach to personal and group development by combining four domains of knowledge and practice:
- Advanced Communication Skills
- Integral Practice
- Meditation
- Adult Developmental Psychology
These trainings are action learning based - meaning you learn by doing in a feedback rich environment. As such, the trainings are highly experiential and engage the group in dialogue and exercises intended to awaken understanding and capabilities of working with power dynamics, “us versus them” dynamics, emotional and relational dimensions, fear and unconscious biases, and techniques to support individual and group transformation.
This experience weaves in live demonstrations and unique “pointing out” instructions, making the subtle group dynamics more visible to everyone. Like a sports team reviewing the last play on the sidelines, you will have the opportunity to freeze frame and zoom in and out of the group dynamics.
Lastly, because this is a training environment you will have meaningful opportunities to practice facilitating the group (or a sub-set of the group) through different conversations and dynamics with the opportunity for real-time coaching and feedback from your lead trainer, coaches, and peers.
What You Will Practice
- Generating psychological safety
- Listening and responding spontaneously
- Relating to challenging emotions
- Integrating multiple perspectives
- Working with power dynamics
- Creative interpersonal risk taking
- Working with fear and unconscious bias
- Maintaining stable mindful awareness
- Perceiving and responding to subtle dimensions of group process
Learning Objectives
1Transformation
Ego Resistance
Transformative Learning
2Integral Mindset
Perspective Taking
Polarizing Positions
Integrating Polarities
3Ethnocentric Dynamics
Us-Them Dynamics
Unity Through Diversity
4Emotional Intelligence
Intimacy with Emotions
Emotional Intensity
5Power Dynamics
Personal Power
Rank in Group Dynamics
6Fear & Unconscious Bias
Marginalized View Points
Working with Ignorance
Compassion
7Meditation
Neutrality and Dynamism
Embodied Presence
Meditative Awareness
Lead Trainer
Gabriel Menegale Wilson
Gabe, founder of Developmental Design, is a leadership coach and organizational consultant, with a specialty in diversity and inclusion efforts. He is the co-author of Compassionate Conversations: How to Speak and Listen from the Heart. His work takes us to the intersection of social justice and purpose driven enterprises, design thinking, human psychology and group dynamics.
Freedom and Fairness is an initiative within Gabe's work to apply Integral Theory, zen training, and adult developmental psychology to the theory and practice of group facilitation in the context of DEI and intergroup conflict.
Gabe studied adult developmental psychology and leadership through Stanford’s Masters program in Policy, Organization, and Leadership Studies (POLS). He was a lecturer at Stanford University for the innovative program, Designing Your Life, where he taught undergraduate and graduate students the principles of design thinking as applied to personal and professional development. He is a certified Integral Facilitator and an associate at Delta Developmental, a leadership and organizational development consultancy. He is a practitioner of meditation in the Zen lineage at the Two Arrows Zen Center.
Coaches
Nita Baum
Nita Baum’s head, heart and hands are focused on elevating the wellbeing, sustainability, and freedom of people and our planet. Drawing on 20+ years as a leadership coach, entrepreneur, teacher and consultant, she founded b*free to re-envision and re-create the Workplace as HealingSpace where freedom, sustainability and wellbeing happen at work, not in spite of it. b*free’s holistic approach mind-body-spirit@workintegrates personal development, embodied wellness and work. Nita and her team of co-creators draw on the latest insights from neuroscience, org behavior and culture transformation to provide individual and group dynamics coaching, facilitate retreats, design and deliver transformative learning experiences and advise founders, leaders and teams on developing equitable, inclusive, human-centered cultures rooted in abundant mindsets. Founding Board Chair of Solar Responders, a climate change disaster resiliency non-profit that places solar + battery storage on first responder stations in Puerto Rico, Nita’s an avid yogi from New York, and holds a BA from Columbia University and MBA from GW Business School.
Alana Felt
Alana Felt's passion lies in working with individuals and teams to transform their inner practice and interpersonal skills, and to refine their capacity for greater impact and collaboration. As a coach, facilitator and consultant, she designs and facilitates processes for executive teams, educators, and innovators in the public and private sectors. Her WholeHuman coaching approach dynamically guides clients towards becoming wholehearted, connected, and authentic with a focus on presence, embodiment, clarity, integrity and leadership capacity. Her expertise in transformative and experiential learning rests on over a decade of experience guiding in outdoor recreation and wilderness experiences for youth in therapeutic, non-profit and educational settings. She is a Certified Integral Facilitator and an Integral Facilitator Authorized Trainer, a Senior Consultant with Ten Directions, a Certified Associate Integral Coach through Integral Coaching Canada, a Wilderness First Responder, and a meditation practitioner in the Soto Zen Tradition. She brings clear insight, deep care, and grounded presence to her work. She lives in the mountains of Salt Lake City, Utah.
Praise for Freedom and Fairness
Ahmad Wright, Assistant Dean of Career Education, Stanford University
"I would recommend Freedom and Fairness to people because the training truly delivers on its promise of altering your perspective. The possibility of reaching across the barrier that divides us had not been possible in my lifetime before this training."
Lindley Mease, CLIMA Fund Director, Thousand Currents
"Our journey towards racial justice is an 'everything and' kind of path. It requires political education and jostling conversation and direct action. Yet, to create the types of humans that can create and LIVE in a more just and equal world, we must transform our inner worlds. The Freedom and Fairness training is one of the few spaces where this type of transformation occurs."
Adam Leonard, Executive Development, Google
“This workshop was the most powerful D&I experience I have ever had. Gabe and his team did a terrific job holding and cultivating an unpredictable space and created the conditions for a truly remarkable outcome. It deeply touched my heart and expanded my perspectives. I highly recommend this workshop for those who authentically care about diversity and want to dive deep into the conversations that matter most.”
Roshanda Cummings, Community Catalyst,
Impact Hub Oakland
"The Freedom & Fairness training was unlike any training around race and equality I've ever had... Freedom & Fairness had the power to encourage everyone in the room to be an agent of new resolutions, while being courageous enough to help the room get real about deep-seated beliefs, in the spirit of mutual support."
Matthew Abrams, Consultant & Founder, Mycelium
"This training compassionately and firmly invited facilitators to show up in different and novel ways, go within themselves, acknowledge blinders, and to work in ways that are attuned to new internal and social insights."
Logistics
Spring Training
POSTPONED DUE TO COVID-19
Fall Training
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